Sunday, May 29, 2011

girls, photos, drama

On Kota's 11th day of life, she had a PHOTO SHOOT!  Girls will be girls right?

Ashley's friend Sarah Nebel is a very talented artist who has her very own studio in Riverside, Iowa - the self-proclaimed future birthplace of Captain James T. Kirk (one more reason the rest of the nation is making fun of Iowa).

We took outfits, we took accessories, we took diapers - and Kota struck a pose - poses even.  But it took a while.  Babies don't seem to care a whole lot about your 'timetable'.

God help me, I've just realized I have a girl!  Dresses, and frills, and calculating frowns will turn into school dances and credit cards and little Justin Beiber's - where's my shotgun honey?  And the emotions!  I've seen a few meltdowns in my day (probably caused a few if I'm honest).  Oh the luxury of stepping aside, shrugging it off, walking away.  I remember standing next to my college football coach in the gymnasium one day as a female basketball player ran past us balling.  And she was 22.  He turned to me and said, "that's why I don't coach girls.  I don't know what to do with that."  Neither do I coach.

Okay, so I'm a little ahead of myself.  Currently, Kota remains an infant.

So maybe my prayer life becomes a healthy balance of the woman I want her to be - and the women I want her to avoid.  God have mercy - give me the grace to raise a woman of character - and not a high maintenance drama queen with a pierced navel (no offense to anyone with a pierced navel).  I digress.

Kota's 'professional' shots will be done soon.  Until then, here are some of her dad's:

Check out www.sarahnebelphotography.com/ - she's got crazy skills

"Can I get a little couch space please?"





"Ahhhhh!!!"


"Thinking about my next move"


"Milk is good"

"I can see your heart Mom"
"Already working dad over"


Wednesday, May 18, 2011

baby kota

How many transitions in life are there?  100's?  1,000's even?  Often times, somewhere in the middle of the 'big ones', I've found myself thinking (saying), "Am I really here right now?  Is this really my life?"

Well, I've found myself there again.  On Tuesday, May 17th, at 3:42a.m., Kota Ryan Thune was born.  She's beautiful!  My brother Bob, after rebuking me via Facebook for not posting any pictures, asked me how I was doing - how I was feeling?  I'm still trying to figure out how to respond.  This space, this moment, it's just so surreal.  I'm a father now.  How did that happen (that's a rhetorical question - feel free to rescue your mind from the gutter)?

Transitions turn into realities, and the same is true in this case.  But I think this one may take awhile.  My wife was an absolute rock star, receiving no drugs, no epidural, delivering her first child 'all naturale'.  But we both agree, that prideful hearts are of little concern.  God was ahead of us, in the room with us, sovereign over it all.

So...am I really here right now?  Is this really my life?  I hope so.

Here are just a few pics Bob.  More to   Kota's first full day in this world.  Enjoy.

Yes I know she's upside down

The Thune girls

Jarryd Cole and Kota - they have a special bond

And...Big Joe.  Only question...which one is cuter?

Grandma Dubbs.  I know, I know, how can she possibly be a grandma.